All too often, men think that they're not approaching lovemaking right that's why their lovers are not in the mood for sex. But have you given a thought that maybe it's because of how you ended the precious lovemaking session? Afterglow is very important to women and if you don't get this one right, it sort of reduces our desire to engage in sex the next time.

If you find that your lover is more often NOT in the mood than you should talk to her in a different way? Dirtier, perhaps? It may not make you more romantic but an expanded adult vocabulary can make you seem a bit more experienced and occasionally add a little intrigue to your sexual portfolio, which in turn stimulates a woman!

I don't know if it's something in my mind or my hormones but some foods just get me hot and the chance for great lovemaking goes way up after my man has arranged for us to eat in style. I especially get turned on when my partner has gone out of his way to prepare an aphrodisiac dinner.

Undoubtedly, a woman's breasts rank up high on the erogenous zones list. Breasts have many nerve endings that it doesn't really require a lot of effort to stimulate a woman via her breasts or nipples. However, simple stimulation is not what we're after, right? You want her to be really sensually turned on when you start paying attention to her breasts.

Women are vocal enough. They want INTIMACY! But just what exactly do you do to achieve this with your lover? That is, how do you do it without necessarily boring yourself or feeling awkward about it?

Oral lovemaking is probably one of the hottest things you can do for your lover to sexually stimulate her. In fact, most women confess that not only do they get wet faster through oral lovemaking, but most swear it's the only way they get to reach their own climax! So how do you plan for and prepare for a night of oral loving?

Everyday thousands (if not millions) of men get frustrated by the fact that for some reason or the other, their partners do not want to have sex with them. There are plenty of reasons why your woman may not be `in the mood'. For instance, it's a fact that most women don't reach an orgasm during intercourse so this `sexual frustration' may result in her not wanting to have sex as much as you do.

Contrary to popular belief, a lot of women enjoy adult entertainment too. Unlike most men though, they may opt for the ones with a `romantic storyline'. You see, if men are easily turned on by two people in bed, some women may find this crass or insensitive and be turned off by it.

Unlike men, women need a little bit more time and stimulation to get their sexual juices flowing. This is why it's so important for men to master the fine art of foreplay.

The bathroom can be a really exciting sex haven for you and your lover. Of course, you need to be careful as you guys don't want to slip and hurt yourselves but apart from that, you guys can be in for a truly great lovemaking experience.

Like most homes, you also probably have a spare room that you and your partner have nicely decorated for guests (in-laws, friends, etc.). And again, like most couples, you probably don't even consider using the guest room yourselves. Well, what if you try and make the guest room your `sex room'?

When you think of your garage, what comes to mind? Dusty? Smelly? Dirty? Well, that may be true but that doesn't mean it can't be steamy, illicit and sexy, too.

I know what you're thinking. The laundry room is just a utility room, right? How could it ever be `sexy'? Well, not only can your laundry room be sexy, but those `appliances' can actually be the source of some serious mind-blowing climaxes!

There's something of a bit of a voyeur in every one of us. Whether you admit it or not, some remote part of you wants to look or be looked at. Yes, even during lovemaking. Well, this article is all about fulfilling that fantasy within the confines of your garden house or garden shed.

When it comes to lovemaking locations, let's face it, most couples confine themselves within the four walls of their bedrooms. Is it any wonder then that lovemaking becomes a bit of a routine later on? So to free your sexual spirits and be in touch again with those early, giddy days of your relationship, you should explore making love in OTHER locations of your home.

When we talk about bathroom sex games, it doesn't always have to be sex games conducted in your own bathroom. Let's admit it; the idea that you shouldn't do it and the thrill of possibly getting caught contributes a lot to why bathroom sex is so thrilling.

Bathroom or shower sex games can be a great way to get to know each other's bodies better. And the best way to do this is to also include adult toys, the waterproof kind of course.

Tantric foreplay plays a BIG role in tantric sex because we Tantrikas (followers of tantric sex) believe in taking it slow so that we can get maximum pleasure from each step of the lovemaking process.

You're probably familiar with The White T-shirt Contest that is often held in bars. In this contest, women ditch whatever they have on (upper part only) and put on a white, thin, t-shirt. They then get sprayed with cold beer and their glorious and taut nipples are put on display. The winner of the game is the one voted with the best frontal `assets'.

When one thinks of bathroom or shower sex games, can food items be far behind? Not really! However, not just any food item should do. Think along the lines of aphrodisiacs.

Shower sex games are excellent ways to either wake up a sexually dormant relationship or to prevent that from happening in the first place. However, not all couples are into bathroom sex games and may take a lot of coaxing to engage in them.

If you're ready for more bathroom and shower sex games of the `hotter' or `kinkier' kind, then read on!

Not all sex games need to end up in intercourse. Keep in mind that the objective of sex games is to spice up your sexual relationship and if the actual `effect' takes place immediately afterwards, great. If not, it doesn't mean that the sex game was not successful. It's just that the effect takes place later.

The Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl sex game is a fun way to engage in sexual playful banter. It's a nice deviation to other sex games that actually require couples to be slow and quiet.

Ever heard of the phrase `Amsterdam windows'? Well, this term actually refers to the red light district in Amsterdam, an area in the main city of Holland where prostitution is legal. In the red light district, women in this profession stand in front of window displays to entice male passersby to select them and come in for pleasure.