This article is about how to speak up to a bully if you're not quite ready for a confrontation with her. The method is called "Parrotting." You just repeat her offensive request or remark back to her.

A bully will test you by gently bullying you at first. If you stop her in this early stage it's easy. And you can prevent further attacks if your stop her early.

What do you do if the bully excludes you? One way is to speak up and not let her ignore you.